Ah... The Good Old Daze... You shoulda been there...

Prop up Your Feet, Cross your Arms, Close Your Eyes, and Remember back to those glorious daze of the 1960's....

...When you'd go for walk on a sunny summer day in the Land of Free Speech, and be tear-gassed, locked up, beaten, or shot by your own police and military if you spoke up?

Yeh, THOSE were the Days, my friend. We thought they'd never end.

Remember when we didn't have email or anything, and we loved our phones because we could call anyone we wanted from the comfort and safety of our home... even while our lines were tapped by the FBI listening for subversive language like "I don't think Viet Nam is a Just War!" or "Eighteen year old citizens should be able to vote if we're also supposed to kill for America!" Remember?

Mmmm, Simpler Times.

...When everyone agreed on what was proper appearance, and if your sideburns went below the ear lobe, your skirt went above the kneecap, or your skin was the wrong color, you were denied your public school education until you got back in line and stopped disrupting things?

I miss not having to think.

Remember when it was just a lot simpler to not report sexual abuse or rape, and let the family go on uninterrupted and without embarrassment?

I sure do! I mean, what could you do about it anyhow?

I miss those daze...

Remember those great old cars that got 8 miles to the gallon, had no seatbelts, airbags, or anti-lock brakes, and the very BEST cars coming out of Detroit ("It's Ford! No, it's Chevy!") didn't get tossed to the junk yard until maybe as much as 50,000 miles... but gasoline was 30 cents a gallon? Everyone could go out driving all the time! Remember the people who were killed in those years on the roads? Sure, I miss my friends and family... but the cheap gas and "classic" cars were great! It was Fun, Fun, Fun!

Good memories. GOOOOD memories!

How about when we used to laugh and call cigarettes "Coffin Nails" but didn't know anyone who was dying of lung cancer? Did we? Or like when we called cigarettes "Fags" and would then cruise the parks at night looking for "Queers" to rob and beat to a pulp? Ooh, and how about when "pulp" was something you didn't want in orange juice, so Mom bought the latest & greatest chemical version of an orange flavored liquid-like substance?

I wish I could go back....

Remember Jimi Hendrix, Janis Joplin, Tim Buckley, Nick Drake, Brian Jones...? I wish they hadn't killed themselves, but what the hell, they were great while they lasted.

Remember John F. Kennedy, Martin Luther King, Robert Kennedy? Okay, I wish they hadn't been killed, but they did some great things while they lasted, huh? Yeh... back then you never knew what would happen next!!

God those were exciting days!

I loved that song "The Ballad of the Green Berets", and our duty was to serve Viet Nam's best interests. It WAS, right? Oh sure, it was a bummer to hear another good friend was Killed or Missing in Action, but that's the price of... uh... you know... Stuff.

I miss Nixon. I miss our leaders who could sweat in front of the camera, and you knew they were lying. I miss the egos who would tape record their chit-chats about their own illegal activities. They made things simpler. Life was simpler. Upsetting American Life was simpler. Denying American soldiers proper aftercare was much simpler than honoring our promises. THAT saved money, and with the gas crunch and inflation, THAT was a good thing! Hey...
we should keep doing that! Good ideas don't go out of fashion. The Bottom Dollar is still the Bottom Dollar!

Remember when "Life Ain't Fair" was all you needed to say?

I do.

Posted by Ronn Ives at 05:22 PM | Link

Last night, I finished "Hitler's Scientists - Science, War and The Devil's Pact", by John Cornwell. Except for the last chapter in which he discusses more recent ethical issues showing obvious conceptual relationships to Nazi rationalizations (the Tuskegee syphilis experiments, etc.) (I do not need anyone telling me bad things still happen) - this was a good book full of information and a logical, steady build up of how Nazis - and average Germans - found their "excuses".

The scary truths include:

1) rationalizations creep up over time - they are NOT overnight changes,

2) greed can take normal people to such extremes, and,

3) the human need to belong is that powerful.

They are scary because they exist everyday in the air each of us breathes, despite our readiness to claim we are immune.

We should NEVER forget these facts.
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Posted by Ronn Ives at 09:21 AM | Link

I was raised Presbyterian Lite, and it never stuck to my ribs.

For me, Easter was a day when my brother and I dressed up in little tweed sports coats, trousers with knife-sharp creases, and patterned clip-on bow ties... we then picked Pansies, and took them to our Grandmas and Grandpa, in Dad's dark metallic green fastback '51 Chevy coupe with the all-business, gray pinstripe wool upholstery.

Easter and Spring go together of course, and in northern Indiana, the death of Winter and the rebirth of Spring REALLY meant something to us. Even as kids, we were glad to finally get relief from the bitter cold and deep snow that kept piling up - piling up - and never seemed to melt.

I can't say often enough how the movie "A Christmas Story" is near identical to my childhood, but takes place a mere decade earlier. If you've seen that movie, you've seen 75% of my childhood. (However, Cheryl, who, up in the woods, showed Dennis and I her you-know, was cut from the film version: "It looks like a little tiny butt!" "Yeh! It DOES! WOW!!") Neither of us had sisters.

Anyhow, Easter meant Pussy Willow, Crocus, Lilly of the Valley, Tulip leaf tips, and lots of tiny buds that would soon show themselves for what they were. The four foot icicles that grew all Winter on the shady side of the garage roof edge, were no longer deadly weapons, but the drink of Pansies.

Icicles had a special taste. They weren't just water, but they didn't taste like building, either. They were just... special. Now, water sucked out of the summer hose tasted just like its metal and rubber. No mistaking that flavor. It was unique, and was Existentially appreciated. Plus, one was Winter water, one Spring/Summer water. They were different. Duh.

Anyone's hose would do. If "the gang" was out on a hot summer day hike (and truly, I mean MILES of dirt roads and woodland hiking), we felt free to suck on anyone's hose laying anywhere in anyone's yard. Sure, if the hose had stayed cool in the shade, so much the better... but beggars can't be choosers, and no hose owner ever seemed to mind a bunch of little boys, dressed like Davey Crocket or Spin & Marty, sucking on their hose.

Ah, Simple Times. I'm getting all NOSTALGIC...

Those were pure times. They were perfect...

Allow me to read a few passages from Journal #1, paragraph #18...

.............................hmmm...

uh...........wait....maybe from Journal #2.......................

..........................uh, no...

........never mind.

My journals won't allow nostalgia. They won't allow me to turn my world or me into something new, later.

We were what we were. What are what we are.

Hose water is but a distant memory of a long-gone icicle.

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One more thought: my wife and I were talking about Easter. She told me that her, her sister, and brothers all received new outfits for each Easter - "...from the inside out... underwear to new dresses or suits."

I thought about that, and in my head saw a two-frame cartoon:

Frame 1: A little girl is standing with outstretched hands, holding a pair of panties. She has a "voice bubble" above her head with only a question mark in it, and is looking up at her Mother.

Frame 2: The Mother is looking down, has a "voice bubble" over her head, and she is saying: "Because we celebrate the Resurrection of Jesus Christ our Lord with the buying and wearing of new underpants."

Amen.

Posted by Ronn Ives at 09:45 AM | Link

Speaking of water...

I've been waiting for this for a long time:

WATER IS NOW CONFIRMED to exist on Mars.

I've always thought it was incredibly self-centered the way we humans view ourselves within the Universe and Time. Confirming water on Mars does NOT confirm other life, large or small, past or present, but our science says water is the necessary component for life, and, if it is a literal Universal fact, we are one step closer to being forced to admit we are NOT the single creation over which we've tortured and killed each other since painting our faces with charcoal and goat's blood.

I'm very pleased.

It'll do until other life - single cell squirmies or big-headed baldies - is found or finds us.

Then, I'll be very, VERY pleased.

Someone on another planet may be saying the same thing, and is waiting to see how THEIR "organized", established institutions dance to that same tune.

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Posted by Ronn Ives at 09:02 AM | Link

The following is an ongoing "conversation" between myself and Masayuki Sugiyama (another antiques dealer) in which we will focus upon our interests in history - with a special attempt to discuss the era and cultures of Japan and the United States during World War II - which, to this day, plays a huge role in all of our lives. As you scroll down, this text will read as a conversation. As Masyuki and I reply to one another, I will add to this page, and again move it to the front position. ("Masa" makes an occasional spelling, etc. error, but nothing that cannot be understood. I wish I had an equal grasp of a second language! Also, when inserting a quote of mine into his text, he indents it with a ">").

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Initially, I posed this challenge:

"Masayuki,

I am a student of World War II. I was born in America in 1950. How old are you, and would you be interested in our talking about your view on the Japanese perspective of that time? We might create something useful for others, and I would like to put it on my web site. What do you think?

Ronn."

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First, Masayuki's response and self-introduction:

"I am 41, was born in 1967. As I have less experience than you, if you are O.K. I would be happy to talk with you and posting on your web sounds like fun.

Regarding WWII, I have been learning from books, videos, so on. I am not representative of Japanese, however, I can tell you my opinion. Learning history not only about WWII but also people's lives, art and culture is very important for me and is helpful to do in antique industry.

Masayuki"

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And my self-introduction:

"Masayuki,

I am 58 years old, so neither of us were alive during that terrible time. Still, we both lead lives that were affected by World War II.

I will start by saying I was born only 5 years after the War, and so I was raised in true "post-war" America, with all of its fresh scars and hopes for the future. In this country, the last generations of adults and children faced nothing but economic agony from the Great Depression (1929+) which lead into World War II (the Nazis controlled Germany by 1933, attacked and conquered their first countries in 1939, and, the Japanese began aggressions against China - via Manchuria - in 1931, and continued to fight China without intervention until 1941)), but it was only once Japan attacked the American military at Pearl Harbor Hawaii that caused America to join the "Allied" fight against the "Axis" (Germany, Japan, Italy), in 1941. I will say I am in awe of the hardships, pain, and death this era created for nearly everyone on the planet. I do not wish to have lived during this time, but I am honestly thankful for the sacrifices and eventual outcomes.

Question to you: Were you raised in an environment where WWII was discussed, and, if so, what was the "gist" of your education? If not, why do you think the subject was avoided, or was it only a shortcoming in your personal upbringing?

Ronn."

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Ronn,
This correspondence would be so fun because I've never done such a style of communication!!

Yesterday after work, I was watching my favorite TV program so called "Are you smarter than a 5th grader?". Question was "How many strings does standard viola have?". One younger kid answered correctlly as 4 strings. It was very impressive that such a small kid knew about it..

Anyway, I was not in an environment to discuss anything not limited to WWII. As far as I remember, typical students who learned based on public educational scheme provided by Japanese government, had no experience to discuss. I think this is biggest difference between U.S. and Japan at the educational system point of view. That's why most Japanese is not good at thinking how controversy or debate works. This was caused by educational system and it might be slightly changed currently. It is very unfortunate. Most important thing for students is to pass the exam, and in the last to memorize silly things as much as possible. Out of this scheme, it is not easy to store fundamental knowledge to use for discussion.

On the other hand, we keep some Japanese tradition in our activity. Let me give you some key words as the following. "Humility", "Modesty" and "restrained style". These words might be considered as kind of negative words in U.S. However, these are words are to describe Japanese beautiful virtue. "NOT to talk too much" is good thing for Japanese. Complicated? Yes!! Therefore, I always try to change comunication style during stay in U.S. and in Japan.

Let's go back to move on your next question.
If you read my talk so far, I think you could guess my answer. Regarding the subject of WWII, this was not avoided. All the discussion is not our daily basis lives. Discussion is mostly being done over the TV program by politician, historian, critic and professionals as jobs to make money not to find out real fact. Of course, thier comment is differ based on thire standing place to keep thier advantages. After all they pissed me off because thier real intention are transparent for watcher. We, ordinary people especially younger age, is starting to think deeply our history and to try to have own opinion.

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Masayuki,

I am both surprised and not surprised by your answer. Americans are often told that the educational system in Japan is of high quality, but I must admit I also wondered if this was true when it came to creative problem solving and individual thought processes. Perhaps it is fair of me to say that Japan has not only a more cohesive society, but one with more conformity and less creativity?

I attended the American public school system. Often, it did not hold my interest. I also attended over 10 years of university. I then taught university and public schools for 13 more years. I say this to give perspective to my involvement with our educational system. Our educational beliefs change back and forth over the years, from learning "just the facts" (like in Japan), to more introspective and creative methods of problem solving. It seems we cannot decide what it best, and it becomes a "ping pong ball" for politicians.

My education DID include World War II, but not to the level I now think would be sufficient. MOST of our "political" or "military" education was focused on the current (1950's) struggles in the "Cold War" with the U.S.S.R. In fact, one of the reasons I began to study WWII was because of its importance to all of us, yet the coverage seemed minimal. And, the generation who fought in that war - especially the men - would NOT discuss it with us, their children. I never met an older man who would talk openly about that time. Their "scars" ran too deep, and men were taught to not express their feelings, or sometimes even their thoughts. This included my Father. His involvement in WWII is almost a mystery to me, though I have learned a few things over the years - NOT from him, however, but from others. It was this personal and general cultural silence that caused me to look other places for answers.

I do NOT think this silence is from shame. I think the silence was from the sadness of losing friends and family; the horrors they experienced in the fields of battle; a guilt that some soldiers survived while others did not; and the American male behavior of not wanting to openly discuss or relive the past. There was also the period of anti-war feelings in the 1960's-70's due to Viet Nam, which angered and silenced many, if not all military veterans.

My interest in the WWII era is this: we, as humans on this planet at this time - those of us who DO have LIVING MEMORIES of that war or are related to those who do - have within our reach the most extreme planetary event to study that tested everyone to levels unlike any others. If we are to learn anything from that time - which brought out the best and the worst in humans - this is the event, and this is still the time to best consider it (while survivors still live).

Ronn.

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Hi Ronn,

Hours while thinking how to reply to you, are always valuable & practical time for me to clarify my fragmented thoughts!!

Question : In order to make the size of market of plastic bottle to double, what should you do?

This was actual question at the job interview of multi-national consulting company in Japan. In addition to logical thinking & imagination, now it is being required to have potential skills to think deeply from the scratch.

We need to think whole process without our knowledge or experience. We need to think by ourself. I think that "more introspective and creative method of problem solving" in U.S. is ideal way we should try to implement into Japanese educational system as an advanced scheme.

I had over 7 years of university both in Japan & in U.S. and had then more than 13 yrs of a computer engineer. Since my career was changed to antique dealer, I always learn lots of fun things. History of furniture design as well as wood material from 1700s to now, was one thing. And I visited exhibition such as "Bau Haus" to learn 1930s design and to see wonderful piece like the original Breuer chairs.

One day, I knew what I don't know much about history. What I learned about history is segmentalized, so I awaked I need to reassemble those to consistent history in line. Luckily, antique dealing might be transactions of past history, sometimes proof of glory. So, it is linked deeply with history and that's why I had an interest about WWII as well.

As far as I know, older Japanese peole were so poor after WWII. They had nothing to eat, no place to live but expectations for future. Majority of people, mainly young guys who joined to battle were already passed away. So, all the people who were left behind had to alive somehow by eating even wild-life locusts.

From certain period of time back in 1970s, people's life was developed and no worry to eat. At that time prople spoke "The Three Sacred Treasures" which is wanted items by people including a colored-TV, a refrigerator and a wash machine.

At the same time, people started to feel it might become a topic of TABOO to discuss about WWII among the citizens in such a optimistic mood filled with expectations for future.

Simplely, if we NOW start to discuss about WWII with among living young age people who were born after 1950s, discussion would be very practical at perspective point of view. And then a conclusion would be criticism against all the top decision make who decided to start war and brought us a scars, such as old Japanese goverment, prime minister from the millitary and top level commanders.

However, young soldier at battle who are highly trained and brainwashed by militaly, are considered as sacrificed work force. In fact, there were no happy people in Japan for the time being after WWII. I think this is common statement among Japanese.

BUT, during discussion with some older people such as survived people from the battle, families they lost son at battle, discussion would be complicated. We, most of Japanese, don't say bad mouth against older people. We are brought up that we should respect older people.

In addition, there are some older people who still belive that old japanese goverment made right decision, and they were right. At least those people still WANT to believe that old japanese goverment was right because once they agree that old goverment made inappropriate decision, lost young soldiers were deemed as sacrificed work force. They sorry for the lost soldier's life because soldiers had no options to choose other than being into millitaly and were brainwashed that "you could die of pride under emperor". For young guy, being a member of millitary was obligation which coundn't be refused unless they are in serious sick or handicapped. The famous invitation letter by the Japanese government (Millitary) was called "Red Paper".

Since certain period of time from 1960s or later, only some people belong to political group are opening their mouth about this taboo. As you could imagine, these political people including small portion of younger age are right-wing claimer that follow aggressively our independence and don't hesitate power leadership.

In addition, some of member of congress who belong to old-fashined majority such as U.S. republican, are still supported by Japan War-Bereaved association. This means that they speak a comment as representative of profit of association, and they get votes at the campaign which is easily calculated to assume. These additional factor make this situation so complicated for us to fully understand.

Anyway, we have still time to learn because there are few older people who alive now and have living memories of WWII. But time is very limited due to older people's age.

Masayuki

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Masayuki,

In the world of design, I often hear that the Japanese are not often the inventors of ideas, but they Improve on the ideas of others. This would require design research (patent dates, etc.) that I do not have the time to perform. As an engineer and having an interest in design, you may have some insight? Of course, BOTH models of thought are needed. Perhaps this happens CROSS-CULTURALLY more than in does within a SINGLE CULTURE? I don't know.

In my studies of World War II, this would NOT be the case that the Japanese improved ideas of others (their weapons and machinery were of a much lower quality). Yet, the Japanese were very creative and effective in physically preparing complex battle sites (bunkers, tunnels, etc.) (Iwo Jima being a good example). Yet, their philosophy of soldier fighting caused huge losses very quickly, due to a short sighted belief that dying for the Emporer was more desirable than retreating to fight another day (Kamikaze pilots being the best example, or Banzai charges).

MY interest in WWII came to me two ways: my upbringing and my Father having been in that war, and, my interest in that time period because of design. Although it does not sound like either culture wants to be very "open" in their discussions of their pasts, is it fair to say Japan is less historically communicative than America?

What sort of arguments are given by the people who think the Japanese Government was right in WWII? Does this mean they think the sacrifices and losses were worth it? Are they angry that they lost the war? Who are these people who look back and perhaps think of this as a "good" time?

America has its version of the Japanese "Red Paper". It was, and is, called the "Draft". It was not so necessary in WWII, because Americans felt they were right to fight, and willingly joined the military (after the Japanese attack of Pearl Harbor). The American war in Viet Nam was NOT accepted, the Government needed to use the Draft to get soldiers, and the entire mistake nearly crushed this country's heart.

I did not know about the Japan War-Bereaved Association.

Ronn.

P.S. - I had to laugh about the "Three Sacred Treasures"! This sounds very American from the 1950's!

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Hi Ronn,

I feel same thing as you mentioned regarding world of design. Japanese is not good at inventing from the scratch with a few exception such as Blue LED(Light Emitting Diode). Most likely these rare Japanese inventor goes to foreign contry though...

In a computer industry, there are two different field, hardware and software. From the compact personal computer to high-end "SUPER Computer", objectives to be achived were very obvious and clear. Weight saving, downsizing and speeding up of transaction. These are fields which Japanese can show its chhracteristics to improve the ideas. For long time, it was not needed to care about design in hardware industry until very creative and innovative company "Apple Computer" comes up in a market. Thier highly accomplished product design is still inspiring us.

On the other hand, Japanese software engineer like me worry about the future of software industry in Japan. They always like to discuss but no effective solution coming up so far.

Let's move on to WWII topic.
Yes, "Dying for the Emperor" was most desireable and meaningful way for young soldiers at WWII. This means that "existence of Emperor" is special and sacrament for Japanese rather than Japanese prime minister. At that moment, the people fighted with the pride and soul that we are born where the sun rise, but not technology. They didn't have enough physical & human resources to research and development for anything. Therefore, they had to chose more spiritual tactics such as Kamikaze pilot or sucide attack, instead of development of high technology.

>is it fair to say Japan is less historically communicative than America?

Basically, old Japanese who have living memory of WWII may want to forget or put away. And young generation are not interested in past history. So, it might be a result of less historically communicative. I'm not sure about situation of America.

>What sort of arguments are given by the people who think the Japanese Government was right in WWII?

As far as I remember, I have not heard such a active discussion over the coverage by the people who followed the Japanese Government. Most of people were passed away or are very old. And they thought they live with Emperor and die under Emperor with pleasure and pride. As all the important political decision was made by government, and then it was approved by Emperor, people thought decision of government is by Emperor.
They purely admire the Emperor, and trust Emperor completely. Logic was not important for them at that time because Emperor was so spiritual for them. These complexity makes us difficult to understand.

>Does this mean they think the sacrifices and losses were worth it? Are they angry that they lost the war?

In fact, the sacrofices of young soldiers as well as typical citizens were very sad with no doubt. On the other hand, as young soldires could die under the Emperor, old people think we should keep young soldier's death with dignity. Now, we know we live in peaceful world because they made a history. So, we are very sorry for thier lost. There might be some people who are angry against Japanese government when they lost and most Japanese were in very sad situation. However, decision to surrender which was made finally and broadcasted over radio by the Emperor, was respected by all the citizens. As I wrote before, the emperor is always special for Japanese.

>Who are these people who look back and perhaps think of this as a "good" time?

Almost nobody who think as a "good" time I guess. They might want to be free from the abhorrent history.

> The Japanese "Red Paper" was called the "Draft" here. It was not so necessary in WWII, because Americans felt they were right to fight, and willingly joined the military. Viet Nam was NOT accepted, the Draft was needed by the Government, and the entire mess nearly crushed this country's heart.

In my opinion, Americans fight for the pride, democracy, freedom and for victory. Of course, Japanese fighted for victory, hoever, invited and being a member of military meant to die. They knew it is shame to retreat from the battle field and alive. That's why they told a farewell to family, and went to battle field.

P.S. For a long time, America is a dream country for Japanese and Hawaii was dream place where they want to visit. We had strong influences in various kinds of fields from America.

Thx & best regards,

Masayuki

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Masayuki,

One of the positive results of the terror Hitler brought to Europe was that major thinkers, inventors, scientists, designers, and artists fled to America in the 1930's. Until Hitler, Europe was considered the right place to be for much of this advanced thinking. The reputation of America as a place of freedom and creativity therefore made it possible to acquire even more of these people when there seemed to be nowhere else to go in safety.

One problem with Americans is they have "short memories". America is a nation of people who want to welcome oppressed peoples of the world, but fear the loss of traditions and status quo. We seem to never quite resolve this issue - because of our "short" (lack of education in History) memories of how many times this has happened in America, and how much benefit has come from allowing in new peoples. Yes, it is true, this also brings much confusion and stress.

So it is "Apple" computers that inspire Japanese engineers and designers? Why do Japanese designers of software worry? Do you see the education of the young Japanese losing quality, or, do you see the young losing their sense of duty to get their education?

As I understand it, the Japanese viewed the Emporer as the embodiment of God on Earth. Is this correct? So, they fought out of DUTY to the Emporer, and to not shame the family, but in America they fought for other ideals. Do I understand you correctly?

I think it is amazing that after so many years of WWII, the announcement of surrender by the Emporer would be enough to satisfy the people.

You and I are only two men who were not alive during World War II, but have an interest in the ideas of cultural destruction and creativity. Now here is a very difficult question for you:

Do you think that at that time the Japanese people would have EVER surrendered WITHOUT the American atomic bombs used on Hiroshima and Nagasaki - which made it clear that to continue would mean the total destruction of Japan, OR, did they only surrender because of the Emporer's announcement? If the Emporer had not told his remaining people to stop, do you think they would have CONTINUED even after the atomic bombs?

I believe it was the Emporer who had rightly concluded it was time - or past time - to surrender - otherwise Japan would lose EVERYONE AND EVERYTHING.

Ronn.

PS: Please also talk about American influences since World War II.

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Ragrding the positive results in 1930's is very interesting to me. Even now, this policy is still continuing by U.S. government & home-land security, and in addition to inventors, scientist and artists, America is accepting more outstanding people in various kinds of fields such as professional baseball, basket ball, soccer, and so on. I think these extraordinary resources makes America's potential possiblity more powerful. And sometimes cooperative project with domestic resources would make incredible outcome.

In architectural area, My favorite artist, Marcel Breuer (from Hungary) and Mies Van Der Rohe(from Germany) , may be good examples.

So, personally I don't feel America is facing the loss of tradition. It might be progressively weaken for a long term view though...but this is still abstract imagination for me. I really appriciate if you could tell me a specific examples to explain how you feel to fear to loss of American tradition.

In addition to acceptance of outstanding people, I understand according to coverage that American farmers rely on the direct workforce of foreigners (i.e. from Mexico) to get more cheaper resouces. Furthermore, indirectly American manufactures rely on the cheaper resouces from China so that they can give lower price products into market. Otherwise, current whole scheme can not be kept further. This is exactly same situation we can see in Japan as well.

>So it is "Apple" computers that inspire Japanese engineers and designers? Why do Japanese designers of software worry? Do you see the education of the young Japanese losing quality, or, do you see the young losing their sense of duty to get their education?

The birth of "Apple" computers was revolutionary epoch in computer industry in both hardware & software. They introduce so much fun machine. Those machine are highly stylish and unique shape. And, they often introduce No.1 spec in the world. Even their TV commercial, it is very eye catching.

Most significant feature of "Apple" is user interface on an OS(operating system) software. Under thier infuluence, Bill Gates of Microsoft could develop of OS and nowadays tons of people over tha world can use computers. I think unfortunately these innovative imagination might not be from Japanese.

About young education, my thought is based on the survey of OECD. Basically, ministry on education in Japan frequently change a scheme of programs. So, I think young Japanese are victims after all.

>As I understand it, the Japanese viewed the Emporer as the embodiment of God on Earth. Is this correct? So, they fought out of DUTY to the Emporer, and to not shame the family, but in America they fought for other ideals. Do I understand you correctly?

>I think it is amazing that after so many years of WWII, the announcement of surrender by the Emporer would be enough to satisfy the people.

You correct mostly what I wrote in the mental point of view. In addition, the Emperor was actually head of state of Japan under the Constitution of the Empire of Japan enacted in the Meiji era and was also top of military like George W. Bush.

The previous emperor who announced to public at WWII, passed away 20 years ago. But the current emperor is also being followed by citizens continuously and the topic of the emperor's family is watched by people.

In June, 1945, main island of Okinawa was occupied by U.S. after tough battle so called "Operation Iceberg". According to survey which was announced in 1976, Japanese died by 188136 people and U.S. died by 12520 people and injured by 72000 people.

At that time, Japanese government was considering and working via Swiss and U.S.S.R. to finish the battle with keeping the scheme of "the Emperor" and organization of military. So, most of Japanese government was looking for appropriate way to end the war. However, as this was not achived succesfully Japanese government didn't have any other option, so they HAD TO continue to plan Mainland battle.

One month later in July, 1945, Japanese government ignored the Potsdam Declaration offered because they didn' t know U.S.S.R. would fight against Japan. And Japanese government finally accepted after atomic bomb on Hiroshima and Nagasaki.

I think Japanese government would surrender SOONER OR LATER in spite of atomic bomb because difference of military power between U.S. and Japan was obvious. Japanese government was expecting that 10 million people would be died of hunger in winter 1945 and they were understanding people's complaint. Of course, there were no food, oils and so on.

As a result, atomic bomb was triggered Japan to finish the war EARLIER. If no Hiroshima and Nagasaki attack, battle in main land would be more longer and more people would be died. After all, the Emperor made an appropriate decision to save the life of remaining Japanese and its identity. Actually his announcement to the citizens over radio was his ture apologies. Many Japanese cried when listened to it.

Finally, this is unknown fact that Japanese citizens died in Okinawa by 38754 people out of total 188136 people and many of Japanese citizens died by Japanese soldier or mass suicide, which was directed by military. These suicide attack "Kamikaze" and mass suicide might be based on characteristic and DEEP TRAGIC consciousness in Asian or Islamic world. It is very SAD.

Anyway, I just give you some examples. Some people still think that U.S. wanted to test atomic bomb to Japan not to Italy or Germany. Although Japanese-American in U.S. was deported to concentration camp in western states, but not Italian or German in U.S. Why?

Even now, some people suggest that U.S. try to use latest technology weapons, especially in asian/middle eastern country. Atomic bomb in Japan, F-117 Night Hawk in Iraq and B2 Stealth in Yugo. Why?

There are still conflictions in the world in such areas, Arab, Israel, Iraq, North Korea.....and deep tragic consciousness is being handed down over the generations.

I think an important key is to understand the difference of thought of countries and to share the same goal as piece over the world. I believe that ONLY education make it possible to achive but it still take a long time. Talking about American's influences would be next.

Thx & best regards,

Masayuki

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Masayuki,

Our conversation is getting more challenging! I think that is good.

I agree with you that the United States DOES attract many talented people, and more international collaborations might be good at times. But, I also think that people of many countries are suspicious of collaborations which make them dependent upon another country. History has shown this is a delicate and dangerous position to take, especially with natural resources or military information. It is dangerous because alliances shift more often than we like to admit. I don't think any country truly trusts another country with its future. Today, the OIL situation is a very good example. During the 1920's-40's, it was LAND, GROWTH, CROP POTENTIAL, MINERALS, SLAVE LABOR, SPACE, TACTICAL POSITION, and yes, OIL.

>"I really appriciate if you could tell me a specific examples to explain how you feel to fear tp loss of American tradition."

Okay, I will try. I will try to speak for more people first, and then for myself:

More people: Americans are angry their traditions (and LAWS) that only LEGAL visitors and citizens can work in the United States are being broken and fought against.

Myself: I have lived in another country (Holland). When I moved there, it was with my understanding and dedication I wanted to be in THEIR culture and follow THEIR rules and ideas, NOT America's. Otherwise, WHY GO THERE? From the very first day I arrived, I began learning their culture, their laws, their language. I did NOT expect to be treated special, or to have my American traditions pampered. So, I do NOT like visitors or new citizens of THIS country feeling entitled to special, non-American treatment either.

It is true that our economies are tied together in many complex ways, and it might require a huge, planet-wide disaster to ever separate them again, but I am against ANY country hiring ILLEGAL aliens, no matter what the cost saving (yes, I would pay more). And, I DO think it is better to keep separate national identities - to "diversify" - which is safer - more ability to adapt to change. I do NOT mean we should avoid one another or not attempt to understand one another. I simply think it is the wise, natural order of things to be ADAPTABLE, and the more we become an international "organism", the less we can adapt to local changes. Bureaucracy, and power in the hands of the few, has never been known for its fairness or wisdom.

Masayuki, do you think the Japanese educational system is becoming more like the American system?

Yes, the battles of Okinawa were some of many terrible battles. However, it is VERY difficult for me to believe that the Japanese did NOT understand that Russia would fight against Japan. Russia was part of the Allied Forces against the Axis Forces (Germany, Italy, Japan) for most of the war.

I think for many of those who are reading this, the fact the Japanese were - at that time - willing to kill other Japanese and themselves, is shocking news. Yes, Americans know about the Kamikaze... perhaps also the Banzai attacks... but not of the mass murders of Japanese civilians performed by the Japanese military, and the mass suicides by the Japanese - BEFORE the atomic bombs were used! This is terrible history, and very confusing to Americans.

>Some people still think that U.S. wanted to test atomic bomb to Japan not to Italy or Germany.

This is not true. The tests were done in America. The bombs were not complete earlier in the War. The timing of their use was due to this. It was also concluded that the Italians, followed by the Germans, would rather surrender than all die. This was not the Allied understanding of the Japanese. The Allies felt the Japanese would NOT surrender under the standard tactics used up to this point in time... and the Allies were right. The bombs were "required" to stop ongoing fighting. This is very sad but true - the bombs saved many lives, both Japanese and Allied Forces.

>Although Japanese-American in U.S. was deported to concentration camp in western states, but not Italian or German in U.S. Why?

From what I have read, a number of factors were involved: The American government believed the Japanese-Americans had STRONGER ties to Japan and "old country" family than did German-Americans or Italian-Americans. This was seen as a real threat. Also, the aggressive, sudden attack of Pearl Harbor by the Japanese proved to Americans that the Japanese could do this. The Germans and Italians did not attack America in this way. This made Americans more suspicious of the Japanese. Also, I believe there was a simplistic, racist viewpoint: the Japanese-Americans were easier to "see" than European-Americans. I do NOT think this was the MAIN issue, however. (By the way, we DID have German prisoner-of-war camps in the U.S. at that time.)

I do not believe America has intentionally tested weapons on the innocent civilians of other countries...but I DO think that when aggressions are occurring in a part of the world, countries DO "test" their weapons in the next available field of battle (and on their own soil). It is well-known that Germany only fought with Spain in the 1930's as a method of testing their tactics and equipment before they began their plans to conquer Europe and Russia. In fact, I believe that had the Germans been successful, they would have broken all treaties with and tried to conquer Italy, Japan, and moved on to fight China, Mexico, etc., and wanted to conquer the United States, Canada, etc. They wanted the world. Japan was also Imperialistic, but it is my understanding, they wanted only Manchuria, China, and surrounding areas.

Here is an interesting piece of history for you: at one time Japan was so certain they would conquer North America, they created a new paper money for replacement use in North America as part of their plan to destroy the existing order.

Ronn.

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Hi Ronn

Thanks for your reply!!
Everytime I read your reply, I feel it is very precious moment because this kind of talk is first time for me. Also, I'm always inspired by your idea and opinions.

I understand about what you pointed out. Sometimes I feel same thing. In Japan, there are 2nd or 3rd generations of "Korean-Japanese" and "Chinese-Japanese" who were born in Japan and speak Japanese as same as Japanese.

They works with Japanese and are tax payer as same as tyipical Japanese. Of course, they are permitted legally to live in Japan as permanent resident, however, they don't have rights to vote and are not eligible to work as public employee such as government related services. This policy have been kept by Japanese government and is might be from thinking of suspicious of collaborations related to confidential informations. Recently, they says it is not fair and as far as I know Japanese government is now considering to make the policy loose.

>I don't think any country truly trusts another country with its future.

O.K. I think this is your honest impression and some Americans might think same way.
As the member of congress and politicians are working on the position to keep national benefits and should always consider pros and cons, it does make sense for them to think such a way. I just feel it is a bit unfortunate if we, all citizen, think such a way.

>More people: Americans are angry their traditions (and LAWS) that only LEGAL visitors and citizens can work in the United States are being broken and fought against.

Laws are fundamentals to form our daily lives, so no doubt that anyone even American or visitor must follow because U.S. is the country ruled by laws. According to the news paper, even EU(European Union) leaders in Brussels, Belgium, want thier nations to fingerprint all foreign visitors and take other new steps to keep out illegal immigrants as part of a sweeping security overhaul similar to the measure which is already implemented in U.S.

>Myself: I have lived in another country (Holland). When I moved there, it was with my understanding and dedication I wanted to be in THEIR culture and follow THEIR rules and ideas, NOT America's. Otherwise, WHY GO THERE? From the very first day I arrived, I began learning their culture, their laws, their language. I did NOT expect to be treated special, or to have my American traditions pampered. So, I do NOT like visitors or new citizens of THIS country feeling entitled to special, non-American treatment either.

Yeah, I understand what you mean. You're right. Although I am not sure about the on-going situation here in U.S., there may be people who get entitled as special or expect to be treated special.

>Masayuki, do you think the Japanese educational system is becoming more like the American system?

Of course, Ministry of Education in Japan is seeking a better way to improve educational system all the time.

Since 1950s, we, all Japanese, learned English for 6 years at school from 7th grade to 12 th grade. If we go college or university we learn English more longer, however, why most Japanese don't speak English?

Now, educational program is changed to start learning English & PC more earlier from 3rd or 4th grade and native English teacher comes to class room to teach even at public school in Japan.

Over the years Japan have been taking so much influences from U.S. not only educational system but also many things such as a business manner of operation. That's why the major company emphasize the people who aquired MBA(Master degree of business administration) from American universities. Globalization and multilateralization are always primary concerns.

Eventually, specialists in education will make Japanese education system based on various beneficial points from countries like U.S., Europe, Japan and such.

>Yes, the battles of Okinawa were some of many terrible battles. However, it is VERY difficult for me to believe that the Japanese did NOT understand that Russia would fight against Japan. Russia was part of the Allied Forces against the Axis Forces (Germany, Italy, Japan) for most of the war.


At that time in 1945, Japan and U.S.S.R are under neutrality pact which was made between Japan & U.S.S.R. in 1941 and effective for 5 years. After U.S.S.R. beat Germany, they noticed Japan in April, 1945 that they no longer extend the existing neutrality pact further, Japan didn't think U.S.S.R. would fight against Japan. That's why Japan rely on U.S.S.R. to negotiate with the Allied Forces.

On the other hand, Japan have been vulnerable for a long time at information point. Even now, Japan don't have any information security organization such as CIA in U.S.

>I think for many of those who are reading this, the fact the Japanese were - at that time - willing to kill other Japanese and themselves, is shocking news. Yes, Americans know about the Kamikaze... perhaps also the Banzai attacks... but not of the mass murders of Japanese civilians performed by the Japanese military, and the mass suicides by the Japanese - BEFORE the atomic bombs were used! This is terrible history, and very confusing to Americans.

This is terrible and true history, it may difficult to understand for you though. According to reading, these mass suicides were mandately orders from a superior officer of millitary because they think Japanese, even civilians, should suicide instead of being prisoner in case of disadvantageous situation. So, people had to be died by bomb of soldier or sometimes using poisons which were given to millitary soldiers.

This might be similar mentality of Japanese "Hara-kiri" which was done since 1600s in Japan. These are considered as graceful attitude in Japanese tradition, I don't know if it is good or bad though.

Regarding talk of "Japan, Germany and Italy", I really appriciated for your a sincere effort to explain. Sorry if what I asked you was a bithcy question.

I am always standing in neutral position, neither conservative nor radical. However, there are various kinds of people who think differently in a world anytime. Even now in Japan, there are some people who think and say at the racist point of view. I feel they insist the order of race against any other asian countries, and they sometimes envy the Americans and Europeans.
So, questions I asked you in previous mail is from thier suggestion, and I just wanted to give you some examples that there are people who think such a way.

Basically, it is O.K. because we have a freedom of thought, conscience and religion. I just wanted to think these factors by expressing concerns which may cause the serious confliction.

As I'm not historian, I'm not familiar about detailed fact. But, overall it is shame that Japanese millitary fought against U.S.S.R., America, China and so on despite the reason. As history shows, when someone who is a bigot at religiously, spritually or racially, become a leader of nation with power, it would be risky.

I might be passionate pacifist. So far we could have been in democracy world happily, so I think strongly that we need to remain somehow this situation as long as possible to next generation in a future.

>Here is an interesting piece of history for you: at one time Japan was so certain they would conquer North America, they created a new paper money for replacement use in North America as part of their plan to destroy the existing order.

Although I am not sure about new paper money, I am not surprised at things under the war.
Some Japanese report says, bad papers in U.S. dollar was made in WWII in Japan like Germany made fake bills of England pond.

Bad papers in U.S. dollar have been found in asian countries last few years and it is considered from North Korea or Iran related to dealing of weapons. This is very critical issue that effects in economy.

Thx & best regards,

Masayuki

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Masayuki,

First let me state these facts:

The United States is a very large, diverse country. There is NO SINGLE PERSON who can "represent" all Americans. I can speak only for myself, and not always with certainty! :)

I am a long-time, dedicated student of World War II, but I do not know enough to speak to all the issues of that time (even from only the American point of view).

You can trust me to say "I don't know" when I don't know.

Also, we must keep in mind the difficulties of our using different languages, and the inherent problems with translation. Misunderstandings may occur. We can only try to do our very best... which I think is what we are doing.

I am enjoying this greatly.

Okay, now on to our current conversation:

I think that a LEGALIZED citizen of a country should have ALL the rights of a NATIVE born citizen. This is only fair.

When I speak of nations distrusting each other, I am really speaking about governments. However, our governments represent us - speak for us - for better and worse - and this is what I mean.

I must also say that I believe it our human nature to NOT want to give our entire destiny over to another person or group. I believe SELF-INTEREST is a "biological imperative". GROUP-INTEREST is COLLECTIVE SELF-INTEREST. We form "alliances" as a tactic for self-interest, just like any other animal. Do you disagree?

I agree with all countries identifying ILLEGAL aliens, and, all countries MUST have a system in place for aliens to become LEGAL.

There ARE millions of ILLEGAL aliens in the U.S., and SOME DO behave as though they ARE ENTITLED to the privileges given legal citizens. I am against this entirely. It angers me. I myself have been an alien. A LEGAL alien. It was not difficult, and it was the CORRECT approach.

>Since 1950s, we, all Japanese, learned English for 6 years at school from 7th grade to 12 th grade. If we go college or university we learn English more longer, however, why most Japanese don't speak English?

Masayuki,
Are you saying most Japanese CAN speak English, but choose to not speak it, or, are you saying most Japanese study English but have not learned English well enough to speak it?

I think it is very interesting that the Japanese study the Americans about business, and the Americans study the Japanese about business. I must assume BOTH cultures are BOTH right AND wrong in their styles. These studies can only help us all.

>At that time in 1945, Japan and U.S.S.R are under neutrality pact which was made between Japan & U.S.S.R. in 1941 and effective for 5 years. After U.S.S.R. beat Germany, they noticed Japan in April, 1945 that they no longer extend the existing neutrality pact further, Japan didn't think U.S.S.R. would fight against Japan. That's why Japan rely on U.S.S.R. to negotiate with the Allied Forces.

Russia also had a "neutrality pact" with Germany! However, Russia saw Germany breaking pacts with other countries, and rightfully distrusted Germany to keep their pact. Germany had no intention of honoring promises. Yes, Russia had agreed to split conquered land with Germany. They too were greedy and opportunistic. Stalin eventually saw he was associating with the losing side and switched over to the Allies. Italy also did this. Japan observed all of this, of course. I CANNOT believe that through all of these changes, Japan continued to believe Russia would stay on the side (or neutral) of an Axis member. This is too blind and naive. "Pacts" are only words on paper - and governments operate understanding this.

Are you SURE Japan does not have an "Intelligence Gathering" force? I find this hard to believe also. We all know that every country is always busy spying on and stealing secrets of others. It is part of the "game". All countries have been CAUGHT doing it!

>According to reading, mass suicides were mandately orders from a superior officer of millitary because they think Japanese, even civilians, should suicide instead of being prisoner in case of disadvantageous situation. So, people had to be died by bomb of soldier or sometimes using poisons which were given to millitary soldiers. This might be similar mentality of Japanese "Hara-kiri" which was done since 1600s in Japan. These are considered as graceful attitude in Japanese tradition, I don't know if it is good or bad though.

I have read this, and seen actual films of Japanese killing themselves as the Allied Forces approached. The Allies attempted to distribute leaflets from airplanes explaining to the Japanese civilians they would not be harmed. It did not help the problem. THIS is an aspect of Japanese culture that Americans do not understand at all. It also seems to go against the orders of the Emporer to surrender! How can both be right?

I am glad you have mentioned the racism of the Japanese towards other peoples. Racism is not a highly intelligent point of view, but I understand why it exists. Humans SEE things before they understand them in ANY OTHER WAY. Humans are INSECURE. Humans do not like CHANGE. Humans distrust that which is DIFFERENT than themselves/their world. Racism is simply a method of categorizing unknowns. The world is complex. Categorizing is a fast method of trying to understand the world and its threats. I believe this to be a basic survival instinct.

I am NOT saying it is acceptable to remain at this basic level.

I have encountered racism in every country's history. It is not unique to Japan, the United States, Germany, or any other single country. I believe it will continue in one form or another through all of Earth's history.

Ronn.

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Hi Ronn

>I think that a LEGALIZED citizen of a country should have ALL the rights of a NATIVE born citizen. This is only fair.

Although it is sometimes ideal, I agree with you.

In these days I read an article that immigrants who has been a permanent legal resident in U.S. , sent home country. Hospital says, "We are continuing to transfer patients who do not have coverage and can receive longterm care in their home country." At the end of an article, father of this patient concluded "He is not illegal, so why do they throw him out like that?" and "We're human beings. I think a dog would get more help here than a Hispanic." It's really hurt me and I really hope its humanity.

This is the story in Arizona, and undocumented immigrants and even some who are here legally but don't have adequate medical insurance do not qualify for state medical benefit. I just wonder if native American without medical insurance, would face in same way...

>There ARE millions of ILLEGAL aliens in the U.S., and SOME DO behave as though they ARE ENTITLED to the privileges given legal citizens. I am against this entirely. It angers me. I myself have been an alien. A LEGAL alien. It was not difficult, and it was the CORRECT approach.

Yes, I know most of Americans were initially aliens. That's is the country of U.S.

The state of Arizona, the place where I live now, is one of 4 states having border line with Mexico. I know one million illegal immigrants come over to U.S. newly every year and 80% of those are considered from Mexico. According to the survey in 2006 by U.S. Census Bureau, nearly 30% of population out of 6 million people here in Arizona are persons of hispanic or latino origins. So, this kind of illegal immigrant issues are one of primary issues in Arizona and the state allocates huge portion of budget into border patrol or fense establishment.

I wonder about U.S. political strategy related to immmigrants especially Mexians. They intensionally give the status of permanent legal residens easilly to illegal immigrants who stayed more than 5 years in U.S.

They actually have to expect them as workforces in place where most Americans don't want to do. They need a inexpensive labor but they might not want to give all the treatment which Americans recieve. At the cynical perspective, I feel contradictions about political decisions.

Anyway, there another issues in Phoenix regarding homeless people. Here, in Phoenix, is under 20+ straight days of 110 degrees or more. I know 7000 to 10000 people here and there in the valley of Phoenix, including children, are homeless who lives in shelters, in cars, in ditches and makeshift camps behind dumpsters. It may be terrible situations because no available options for cooling down.

I have ever seen middle age of female standing at the corner of street or older man along the street riding bicycle with tons of stuff. But, I have never seen homeless of hispanic people.

I don't know why...Do you have any idea? They may find out jobs somehow even row labor jobs.

>Are you saying most Japanese CAN speak English, but choose to not speak it, or, are you saying most Japanese study English but have not learned English well enough to speak it?

What I mean is most Japanese have not learned PRACTICAL English to use in a real world. We had to learn English for pass the exam and the graduation, not for use in further business scene. I know Japanese sometimes knows very difficult English terminology though...but it may be useful only for reading. Later, most Japanese works at company where they don't need to use English, and eventually forget little by little.

>I think it is very interesting that the Japanese study the Americans about business, and the Americans study the Japanese about business. I must assume BOTH cultures are BOTH right AND wrong in their styles. These studies can only help us all.

I just mentioned about such a small portion of Japanese who live and work under circumstances which require to learn at the global point of view, not applied for all Japanese.

>Russia also had a "neutrality pact" with Germany! However, Russia saw Germany breaking pacts with other countries, and rightfully distrusted Germany to keep their pact. Germany had no intention of honoring promises. Yes, Russia had agreed to split conquered land with Germany. They too were greedy and opportunistic. Stalin eventually saw he was associating with the losing side and switched over to the Allies. Italy also did this. Japan observed all of this, of course. I CANNOT believe that through all of these changes, Japan continued to believe Russia would stay on the side (or neutral) of an Axis member. This is too blind and naive. "Pacts" are only words on paper - and governments operate understanding this.

Your opinion do make sense basically. I am not sure 100% though, I think Japan was just believing U.S.S.R. at least, as long as "neutrality pact" was in effective between countries. And on the other hand, Japan relied on Swiss as well. I think they had no other available options to seek for ways of the ending-war.

>Are you SURE Japan does not have an "Intelligence Gathering" force? I find this hard to believe also. We all know that every country is always busy spying on and stealing secrets of others. It is part of the "game". All countries have been CAUGHT doing it!

As far as I know, Japan doesn't have such a organization. Exceptionally, very small group in police department is correcting informations related to extremist / terrorist issues but this is for domestic purpose. There are some conservative Japanese politicians insisting that independ nation should posses our own millitary and such a information gathering force in Japan. However, we don't have those so far.

>I have read this, and seen actual films of Japanese killing themselves as the Allied Forces approached. The Allies attempted to distribute leaflets from airplanes explaining to the Japanese civilians they would not be harmed. It did not help the problem. THIS is an aspect of Japanese culture that Americans do not understand at all. It also seems to go against the orders of the Emporer to surrender! How can both be right?

I know about flyers dropped from U.S. planes. Japanese citizens, mostly farmers in rural area, were believing that once we surrendered and sentenced in camp, we would be killed after lynch. This may be part of education they learned at school.

>I have encountered racism in every country's history. It is not unique to Japan, the United States, Germany, or any other single country. I believe it will continue in one form or another through all of Earth's history.

I have watched the films by the director Spike Lee so called "Do the right thing!!" and " Marcom X".

" I say to you today, my friends so even though we face the difficulties of today and tomorrow,$B!!(BI still have a dream. It is a dream deeply rooted in the American dream..." We memorize the famous and heart-warming speech by Dr.Martin Luther King Jr, and he was unfortunately assassinated in 1968. Racism is basically understandable, but we have spent ONLY 40 years since that time and I think it is still too early to forget about it.

Thx & best regards,

Masayuki

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Masayuki,

I am unfamiliar with the details of the article you mention. It is hard for me to believe that the hospital did this IF he was LEGAL, and IF he had insurance. Yes, I think Native Americans would face the same problem without insurance.

I am most troubled by the health insurance problems of the U.S.A.. Other countries have found solutions that work.

When I was an alien living in the country of Holland, I followed their laws, and life went fine for me. I have also lived in Arizona (for 5 years), so I do understand some of the problems there (though they have increased since my time there).

I cannot answer your question about the homeless, and not seeing Latinos on the street corners. It is possible more are "taken in" to homes of other Latinos, and, it is possible they have those low paying jobs you mention.

There are many "isms". Racism, Sexism, Age-ism, anti-this, anti-that. Some things are understandable but should not be accepted. Some are understandable and should be tolerated. Some are understandable and simply reflect how humans really are (for better or worse). We are NOT done evolving.

Here is a big question for you: What do you think the Japanese Government, and the Japanese People, came to learn from their experiences in World War II?

Ronn.

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Hi Ronn,
Sorry that I was late to reply.
We just finished painting of interior and established environment such as internet, phone, unilities, so on. it is now around 92 degrees here in Tokyo and not so hot but very humid. So, I'm always sweaty.

Masayuki,
Yes, Virginia is in the high 90's and very humid also. I hate it.
>Masayuki,I am unfamiliar with the details of the article you mention.
>It is hard for me to believe that the hospital did this IF he was LEGAL, and IF he had insurance.
>Yes, I think Native Americans would face the same problem without insurance. I am most troubled by the health insurance problems of the U.S.A.. Other countries have found solutions that work.

Ronn,
According to article on news paper, it is not done like this in California but in Arizona due to different system. I hope that ideal "Universal health care plan" which is mentioned by democrats like Clinton & Obama should be implemented shortly into U.S.

Masayuki,
>When I was an alien living in the country of Holland, I followed their laws, and life went fine for me. I have also lived in Arizona (for 5 years), so I do understand some of the problems there (though they have increased since my time there). I cannot answer your question about the homeless, and not seeing Latinos on the street corners. It is possible more are "taken in" to homes of other Latinos, and, it is possible they have those low paying jobs you mention.

Ronn,
Recently, when we go to burger restaurants such as Burger King we see employees consisted by all latinos. Sometimes I feel they are no longer "minorities" in U.S. They might be needed to keep U.S. economies at the bottom line.

Masayuki,
I think this has been true for years. Also, the history of the United States is that it has always been reliant upon minorities for certain types of work, and has usually made LEGAL immigration an option for those who chose to become a LEGAL citizen. Although each influx of new people seems to upset the "status quo", the changes are absorbed, and we go on into a future.
>There are many "isms". Racism, Sexism, Age-ism, anti-this, anti-that. Some things are understandable but should not be accepted. Some are understandable and should be tolerated. Some are understandable and simply reflect how humans really are (for better or worse).
>We are NOT done evolving.
>Here is a big question for you:
>What do you think the Japanese Government, and the Japanese People, came to learn from their experiences in World War II?

Ronn,
As you mentioned about "short memories" before, I also feel "short memories" of Japanese. We are losing generations who experienced in World War II. Yes, they are so old. Some of them still behave to tell their actual experience in World War II to later generations for letting us know how it was terrible and for not doing same thing.
This is difficult to answer but if I give you an example it might be "civilian control".
At that time there were no actual political leadership to control millitary, and millitary was aggressively acted. In addition, main part of diet member were consisted by people who were originally from millitary.
Even now since old time, an emperor is standing on top in organizational chart, however, he doesn't have any powerful rights to control which can be actually taken place. What he does is just to approve most of important matter ONLY AFTER diet conclude and decide how we should do.
That's why an emperor is called "symbol" of Japan and "symbol" of Japanese civilian.
"Civilian control" is the organizational structure that millitary can act only under control & direction of politician. This have been kept all the time since post war era to avoid risks what they did in World War II.
Therefore, prime minister is top leader to give the direction to the self-diffense army. Now, an emperor never conduct any political decisions and millitary actions.
"Show the flag!!"
This famous phrase, which was told by U.S. president George W. Bush, was to request to Japanese government in Iraq war. He wanted Japan to co-operate and to cater necessary resources to the U.S. millitary in Iraq. Every time we face in such a similar situation, we have a serious discussion about changing our Japanese constitution to allow having real own millitary. Currently, our self-diffense army is restricted to act and is allowed to act for self-diffense ONLY. Actually, they are most likely used to rescue the people from seriously damaged area in emergency situation.
Once we start to discuss about changing our Japanese constitution, most asian countries such as China complain us because they are all remember the old history and they worry about repeating old history by Japanese millitary.
That's why we always face the problem every time when we are required to contribute internationally not on "money-wise" even under the approval of united nations.
On the other hand, Japan have been seriously rely on powerful American millitary. There are some Japanese politicians who insist carefully that all the independent country should have our own millitary accordingly.
Masa

Masa,
I think you are lucky to have some of an older generation who recognize mistakes and warn the younger people.
Could you please tell me what you mean by "diet"? I think we have a language problem here.

I understand the difficult position Japan faces when, as you described, one world power (U.S.) asks Japan to join an international effort, and another world power (China) does not want Japan to have those capabilities. Where the U.S. may now trust Japan to NOT repeat an attitude like existed in WWII, China may not. Of course China, though modernizing, is much closer to Japan, and I am sure this is a concern (somewhat like Cuba to the U.S.).

Masayuki, I ask you this: do you know any older people who fought in WWII? If so, have you ever thought of interviewing them? I have an older American man here, who, IF I can find the time, I would very much like to do this.
Ronn.

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Hi Ronn
I used the word "diet" such as U.S.congress. It means the place or organization like "House of representatives" by senator in U.S.

This is kind of popular problem what we face because we learn English at school consisting of U.S.English and British English. There some English daily paper sold in Japan, and those have also same problem. English which is sopken in Japan is mixture of several type of English from U.S.A., British, Australia and any other contries. Most parts of our English which is learned in Japan might be originally from England.

Yes, I know some people but they have already passed away at all. So, I have never thought to interview them.

I think there are not many people who fought in WWII and who still alive now. If they are still alive now, they must be so old. In addition, they most likely use very strong dialect of Japanese, and it is so hard for me to understand what they mean.

thx & best regards,
Masa

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Masa,

Okay. "Diet". I understand. Thank you. I think this was confusing a number of my readers.

I laughed about your explanation of the use of "English" language in Japan, and dialects in Japan. It is very true! When I lived in Holland, the Dutch could speak British English. I spoke American English. We communicated, but at times it was confusing.

I once met a British man in Holland - and COULD NOT UNDERSTAND HIM! I had to ask a DUTCH friend to listen to him and explain his accent to me!!

Holland is a TINY country. Within this little country, SEVEN dialects are spoken, and some Dutch cannot understand other Dutch.

While living there, of course I travelled inside the country, and I learned their language through the people I met. Because of THIS, I learned PARTS of dialects, and would then (unknowingly) mix them together into a version of the Dutch language they had never heard! Imagine using seven dialects in one paragraph or thought!! Yes, it is a problem, and my Dutch friends were very tolerant, helpful, and forgiving. We also had some good laughs.

I think it would be a great challenge to you to find and interview an older person who was in WWII. We are all busy, but I think this would be a wonderful experience.

Ronn.

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Posted by Ronn Ives at 09:20 AM | Link

My Mom, living in Omaha and Phoenix with her husband Jack, was put in the hospital a few days ago. She'd been mentioning (but, as usual, downplaying) physical problems lately, and would NOT go see a doctor, so I had a private 'man-to-man' with Jack (we BOTH have to deal with her stubbornness), and he solved it by telling her they were going on a couple of errands, and instead drove her straight to the hospital emergency room. Since she has no energy, she couldn't storm off, but DID continue her 'I AM FINE!' routine. Pointless.

She was captive.

Well...NOW that she's IN there, AND they've begun tests, YES she should be there... since anemia, and two ulcers (so far) have been diagnosed! I told her I was GLAD Jack 'Hi-JACKED' her. She had to admit maybe it was a good idea.

'But there I was IN this hospital without even a toothbrush!' she announced.

I wasn't impressed. 'Did Jack go home and get all the stuff you wanted and needed?'

'Yes'.

'Then he handled it.'

'I guess so.'

'He handled it, and now you're there, and someone can help you!'

Jeez!!

You gotta talk tough with these OLD people.

I see what's going on. I've gotten some glimpses so far during MY own journey. Take ANYONE that has EVER had a sense of their own individuality, choice, and freedom... and keep sprinkling years on them. At some point we all slowly weaken, one way, or another, or in a quick sequence, (unless meeting a sudden and violent early end), and it's a harsh reminder not only of mortality, but perhaps more importantly, the loss of our Independence.

It's worse than when you were a kid and wanted to get out from under the control of your folks. At least you could see the light at the end of that tunnel... you WOULD grow up, you WOULD move out, and you would have ALL the responsibility your little personality could ever manage.

NO ONE ever imagines a curve built into the road of life...waiting up ahead... imperceptibly subtle, patiently laying there under foot, to slowly turn us one hundred and eighty degrees from our forward journey...back towards the beginning.

'Didn't we pass this rest stop before?'

'No. THAT was on the other side of the road.'

Posted by Ronn Ives at 09:50 PM | Link

In FUTURES: the Ronettes are singing 'Be My Baby'. I LOVE the Ronettes. They were THE Girl Group of the 60's, and with Phil Spector being their producer (and husband to lead singer Ronnie) (thus 'The Ronettes'), those three women got all the studio attention they needed to be their best, and get the work out to fans like me. I'm so glad. They were wonderful, and Spector's 'Wall of Sound' was a great, great innovation in recording effects.

There is one album, a sampler, which is titled something like 'Phil Spector's Greatest Hits'. Yeh, I think that's it's name.

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I was listening to NPR a few days ago... might've been 'Fresh Air'...and it was about THAT era of music making. The 'Cookies' (who did a favorite of mine, the hit 'Chains') were the demo group for ALL the work being written by people like Carol King. In fact, 'Little Eva' (who did another fave of mine from that period, 'The Locomotion'), was King's babysitter at the studio!

I love learning things like that.

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Part of what I've come to realize is not only is nostalgia okay (when it doesn't RULE your decision making), but we ALL play a part in other's nostalgia. My role is obvious. I supply OBJECTS of people's pasts, but not their memories. However, memories do not end in your 'Past'. Your 'Now' will soon be your Past. Your 'Future' will become your 'Now'... slipping quickly into your Past. It never stops.

Each day, we move through the world, not necessarily 'interacting' with others, but affecting the physical, emotional, psychological, and spiritual landscape that we all use.

A murderer doesn't have to kill YOUR family member, for your sense of safety and trust to be wounded or killed. A sloppy driver, within your 'space' for only a split second, can cause the stress that alters you - potentially for the rest of your life - but more often, the smaller but still significant remainder of your day. An insensitive family member can hurt the Home - for an hour, a day, or here on out.

You CARRY the stress to the next person, and like a virus, it's passed along - unless you're very conscious of your dis-ease, and take the necessary precautions. Sometimes we don't 'carry' it to someone, we shove it down another's throat... then deny it. We are ALL responsible for the day EACH of us will create for ALL of us.

I am NOT talking 'Have a Nice Day' platitudes (although I don't know of anyone ever HURT by them), but those larger events that - WITHOUT A DOUBT - insert - INTRUDE - into the lives of others. How you drive, the look you might give someone while standing in a line, responding to a person in the service industry, or bringing your 'work home with you'. THOSE are the moments with which we create the day...for everyone.

Something to keep in mind...

Posted by Ronn Ives at 11:50 AM | Link

For two days in a row now, I've had a woman visit who is deep in lust with a pair of lamps here in FUTURES.

She hasn't laid down a single dollar to put them in a "HOLD" pattern. She's leaving it to Fate until a payday. I can respect that, but I DO have to tell people who use this approach (and there are quite a few) that "something COULD happen before then, okay?". I learned a long time ago to forewarn them. I HATE having to tell them "cold" - to their faces - "it's GONE."

I've seen shock, fear, sadness, anger, tears. I've heard arguments, stories, disbelief, and pleading. Pleading? "'It' really IS gone. I don't own it anymore. I'm not hiding it in the backroom... Remember what we talked about?" It is all I can do at that point, and I do not like it. So, I say what I need to say as a warning, and if it's taken as sales hype, I can't help that.

I hope she can get them, but I also hope to continue making a living and helping others with their Swingin' Pads.

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The more I think about the "Survival of the Fittest and Least Fit", the more I think it's built into every subject we could ever consider...

...even the weather or "How 'bout them Steelers?"

Daily Existential Truth looms in the background of all things, events, ideas. (Wait...even Existentialism?) If you ever come across a topic immune to Darwin's concept of "Survival of the Fittest", let us know.

(Perhaps Existentialism is the Cockroach or Shark of Philosophies...)

...Yes, I think that's it!

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My wife just called from "out there on the bumper-to-bumper HOT AS HELL highway". Somewhere up ahead of her - and it could be as much as twenty miles ahead - there is an accident, road work, or a simple stalled car. Part of the Road IDIOCY of this area of Virginia is the "Red Rubber Necker Phenomenon". People will slam on their brakes and create a 5-10 mile traffic jam just for the opportunity to have a look at someone changing a tire on the side of the road. I know you think I'm joking. I'm not joking. We're talking total idiots. We are talking The Worst.

No, they're NOT the same everywhere.

This is Colorado: Everyone is doing 80 - bumper to bumper - on the freeway. They could give a hoot if there's a flat tire or a dead body on the side of the road. They can't and won't do anything about it anyhow. From their point of view they're either late for work or in no mood to linger on the way home from work. They're commuting, and "get th' HELL outa the way if you can't keep up !!!!"

The same can be said for Washington D.C..

Now, southern Arizona is different. Their craziness is an result of heat. There is NO effect at 100 degrees. That's too common, too easy. However, for every one degree above that, especially as it hits 110 and goes up from there (usually not over 120 outside), people are snapping, especially IN their cars (which heat up much higher - 140-160 degrees). Road Rage was invented there... and I don't mean merely the old classic driver-to-driver rage... I mean Solo Rage. I mean Rage at the Sun, baby. Rage at the Day. The Open Oven Desert. The Waving Air. Mirage Water on the Highway. The "Anyone with even a lizard brain is under a rock right now" Heat.

"It's a scorcher, m'damn car a/c broke down, the radiator's gonna boil over, I can barely hang onto the hot steerin' wheel, I done run outa cold beers for the drive, and I'm sicka red lights stoppin' the little bitta breeze I can make at 45 mph. I'm SICK OF IT!!! Red lights be damned...I'm goin' home - live or dead - I'm GOIN HOME - and if you git in m'way, I'm takin' you with me !!!!"

That's southern Arizona.

God bless it. I loved living there. You knew where you stood.

Posted by Ronn Ives at 10:56 PM | Link

It's Saturday morning. I've sent out my "Make an Offer" Mondays r-e-minder, had my cereal (with the bonus of red raspberries and blue berries on top - mm mm), and dealt with my web site. It's morning ritual I enjoy.

The house is quiet and my wife is out of town again. See, normally on my wife's workday mornings what I hear is a person madly rushing around, banging, clanking, turning on and off machines and showers, rush rush rush!, talking to herself, maybe a phone call in or out, but always creating the increasingly frantic sounds of trying to get out of the house ON TIME - finally announced by a dive-bombed kiss landed somewhere on my groggy mug, followed by a crashing dash down the two flights of stairs followed by huge slam-bangs of the front door as she runs out...

... and then RE-enters because she forgot something !!! ... with the accompanying highspeed-highheeled running up the stairs again & down the stairs again and the slam bang of the front door again... THIS time followed by the sound of her Prius' efficient-but-groggy, startled little engine being whipped up our street.

MY sound is different. I make mine at night, and it's not so much that I personally make the noise as it is the machines I use... noises which come from the television monitor... either as a tee-vee show or the Movie of the Evening.

"Deborah, Raymond and the children seem to be losing weight! Here, let me show you how to cook something I know he LIKES!"

or,

"Ou est la bibliotheque? Ferme la porte. Oui, la bouche c'est magnifique!"

"Der gotte Ich zien! Vermacht die grote und smashencruncher, ja?"

"Ciao, Antonio! Lasagna castigliani del veccio, eh? Si! Ferrari!!"

"This writing is Elvish. The Ring can belong to no other. It is your Destiny. The Flaming Eye is always watching for you. Its Black Riders will never stop hunting for you. You must go on. Golum has been following for three days." *

"What is the meaning of Life? Why do you stare at me? When will I find myself? Am I lost? Am I arrested? Are you who you say you are?"

Meanwhile, we both deal with the seemingly endless roar of fighter jets brushing the roof of our home, rattling little blue eggs in the Robin nests, loosening the roots of old trees, helping wall paper find its gravity, and trying to deafen baby rabbits.

Life.

Sound.

You may as well love it. The alternative is silence - 24/7.

Posted by Ronn Ives at 05:45 PM | Link

The sub-texts of the photos shown at the link below are 1) while he was kissing these children, his men were swinging the others by their ankles and smashing them into brick walls (to save on ammo for more difficult targets), and, 2) The post-war German Volk explanations "They made us do it." "We did not like him!" "We knew nothing of this!" were ridiculous attempts at loser-distancing. I challenge you to find one frown in those crowds.

http://ziza.es/2008/07/10/Imagenes_ineditas_de_hitler_95_fotos.html

I'm reading "Hitler's Scientists". The title is somewhat misleading because it goes into great depth about German science for hundreds of years BEFORE the Nazis. But, it sets the stage for his main thesis.

Here's the thing... it's way more complex than is generally discussed, and SOME of the Nazi research was solid science that we have used, and for which we are grateful, to this day. It's just not comfortable to mention the sources.

German chemistry, bio-medicine, and pharmacology lead the world. They LEAD the way in cancer research and public awareness. LEAD. They found the links between smoking and cancer. They lead in the anti-smoking awareness. They banned smoking in public spaces. Smoking ads were banned. Smoking warnings were put out. "NO Smoking" spaces were created for the non-smoker. It's sort of UNCOMFORTABLE to hear that, here, now, right? That's not all.

They banned asbestos, pesticides, and food dyes. They promoted yearly health exams. They linked diet and cancer. They linked Xray and cancer. They linked canned foods, smoked foods, fatty foods to cancer. Natural foods were the way to go. Eat whole wheat bread, not white. They lead the moderate use of alcohol campaign. They wanted THEIR people to be the healthiest in the world. (Yes, ironies abound.)

Their scientists also designed gas warfare in World War One.

They also designed X-rays, Quantum mechanics, and the Theory of Relativity (Einstein was Austrian, but Austria was "annexed" by the Nazis and considered German anyhow. Eventually Einstein left Austria.)

However, German scientists had also come to accept themselves as an arm of the military-industrial complex in the 20th century. It was seen as their duty to assist not just Science, but the goals of the Fatherland. After all, it was the Fatherland that funded their fields. As one scientist said "We knew on which side our bread was buttered." Any of THIS make you uncomfortable?

Darwin was interpreted and used to justify the growing Aryan myth and the need for racial "purity". Survival of the Fittest. With the Nazi takeover, all the sciences were "adjusted" to explain Aryan supremacy and the need for "social cleansing".

The duel image in Germany was one of Modernization AND a return to natural health. It was all set in the belief that Old Germany had the core of Truth needed to guide the future. It was a Nostalgia Movement. Still not queasy?
Hitler did not drink, smoke, or eat meat. He set a tone of exercise, fresh air, sunshine, hiking, and "Germanized" education. (You should understand that their book-burnings and library bannings were not only literature of the Jews,
Communists, or Liberals - it was also any science, history, art, etc. that did not reflect the Nazi goals.)

Their intense desire to eliminate "undesirables" was one of the reasons they LOST the war. They pressured out (and later killed) any of their intellectuals who didn't fit an Aryan stereotype or were members of unacceptable groups (Jews, artists, Gypsies, Slavs, Homosexuals...). They also wanted to go to war so badly, they indiscriminately sent their younger, brightest, "acceptable" scientists to the battle field right along with the average Johann. In the long run, they "shot themselves in their collective foot". One of Hitler's advisors suggested he send only the "inferiors" to the front - to be their disposables. Hitler was too focused ridding Germany (and conquered lands) of all "undesirables" to ever put them in even a temporary position of "power" (military), and, his lack of respect for the educated class kept him from protecting his most talented (remaining Aryan) scientists.

Their intense desire to stay obsessively documented on paper and film created an avalanche of paperwork difficult to control, lots of duplication of labor, and competition between departments. (After the war, their own documentation made many trials of war criminals much easier, also.) Irony after irony.

Their goals were so wide and their methods so narrow, they guaranteed their failure... just not as soon as we'd of liked.

Who developed the atomic bomb? Darned near everyone. The roots of discoveries go to labs everywhere on this issue, but, again, due to the faulty methods and goals of Nazi Germany, they fell behind. Plus, old Adolph really never got on board about THIS theoretical weapon. He felt warfare was meant to be a glorious man-to-man battle on "the field". So, Germany fell behind... and aren't you glad?

Fact is, much of the evidence Germany had about the splitting of the atom, uranium, etc., was from two sources:

1) A non-German scientist who wanted to "scoop" the others at a conference - and announced the secrets, and,

2) The New York Times, which made the nearly all the secrets available days after the conference.

Both were asked to not do this.

Everyone knew the Germans had ears and could read. Duh. The Germans got closer to coming up with the bomb because of these public announcements.

How do you feel about THAT?

Posted by Ronn Ives at 10:05 AM | Link

For July 4th, my wife Pat and I traveled up the Eastern Shore of Virginia. If you drive it correctly, it's like a Land That Time Forgot. The best parts of yesterday's trip were the small moments, as usual.

Seeing a whale skull: amazing.

Black Swallowtail butterflies have always struck me as exquisitely beautiful.

The sweet odors of a lush, sun baked and shaded woods take me deep into my childhood, as does the tart flavor of wild Blackberries plucked fresh off the bush and laid on the tongue.

Seeing a 16" big gun BUNKER from WWII was quietly, eerily powerful, but I liked the Mud Wasp nests built on its cement walls even more.

The huge, black Cormorants were simply awesome in their size and the sounds their wings made through the air.

The salt marshes are beautiful (as long as you don't attempt to walk them), and the busy, side-scooting crabs on the delicate marsh mud are blatant reminders life goes on TOTALLY INDEPENDENT of our existence. They were here first, and I... well, I ain't doodly. The Crabs didn't even see us, let alone become concerned.

If that wasn't enough, we found a very old graveyard with worn, isolated, poetic birth/death headstones from more than 220 years ago, which raised the "Ain't Doodly" factor even higher. The Crabs have never noticed THEM... except for the few caught, killed, and eaten by these long-gone Humans. The Humans then turned the Crabs into fertilizer, and in turn, did the same with themselves with no more importance.

From the mud we rise. To the mud we sink.

There's probably a poem in here somewhere... but the Crabs, Cormorants, Whales, and Butterflies don't care. They know the score. They were Before, they are Now, and they will Be.

We are no different. Get over it.

Posted by Ronn Ives at 07:28 PM | Link

I know a lot of Dads, but I never really truly knew mine.

He was there, yes, and yet, he wasn't.

I certainly didn't know that as a boy. As children, all we know is our folks are our folks and they must certainly represent the entire world. Remember when you met a friend's parents, especially in their own home? They were alien... something was odd... they weren't right... they weren't identical to YOUR parents. It was disconcerting.

Parents hide parts of themselves and their histories from their children. Some of it is due to concerns about raising the kids and hoping for new, improved versions of Family, but some is the simple, dark feeling of shame... their shame for certain acts, behaviors, habits, and beliefs wounding periods of their lives, and, later comes your shame for not measuring up to what you fantasized you thought you wanted from them. You are not who you wished they were.

I haven't been a bio-parent, and was only an in-house step-parent for a short, difficult time. None of us were prepared for it. None the less, I think I've served as a pretty good god-father, step-uncle, and step-grandpa. I see myself as fully-fledged in those roles. I hope the "kids" (many now adults) do too. Whether they understand it or not, my step-daughters included, I stand with them now just as I always have. I love them.

My Dad "stood BY us", but I can't say stood WITH us. He was detached and elusive. He existed in the same house, had "his" favorite chair and his routines, but I can count on one hand the moments that seemed real and representative of a man who lived his own reality before and during our days as his kids. He said "I love you" ONCE to each my brother and I, and, for me, this was from a hospital bed, over the phone, across the country, when, though I did not know it, he knew he was soon to die. I was 35.

As the years pass, I've gained insights about him and parts of his life, but he died at age 61 in 1985 - which caused discoveries to quickly come to an end. My Mom's mind is slipping away, so she's not much of source for even a slanted point-of-view (but I give her credit for NOT being one of those people through their divorce phase - in fact she's the only one I have known who wasn't).

My Dad was the child victim of boozing parents who cracked under the weaknesses of their personalities and the pressures of the Great Depression. HIS Dad vanished, leaving him and his younger brother to their Mom. His "father" wasn't found until his death 30 years later. THAT is not a "reunion". Dad didn't talk about that either. His Mom was a tough bird, who drank, smoke, cussed, laughed... but Grandma loved my brother and I. The other side of the family would not associate with her. It seems to have been, in part, a "class" division, and, the more valid fear some of her behaviors might bring harm to us children. I suspect she made some of her food money during the Depression by taking in men for an hour. There are other vague stories about rumored incidents that could've ended tragically...
Ssshhhh.

It's NEVER good to leave children in dark closets.

They'll find their own torch - and light it themselves - if you don't give them the right candle.

Between Dad's illusive parents, the Great Depression, and World War II (which was just one more subject left unanswered for me), he was a man who voluntarily supplied very little perspective for his boys. And, though we picture children as perpetually curious - especially about the Powerful Parents - we children are also very accepting of their personalities as THE representatives for all of humankind... so why ask? The truth is in front of us! They are who they seem to be. They are DADDY and MOMMY.

Dad DID talk... about his troublesome cars (he refused to buy foreign), the weather, and what was on tee vee. A visit to Dad's apartment (after the divorce) was good for an hour or so before we all ran out of luke warm steam.

He seemed to enjoy hearing about what my Brother and I were doing: college life, art, awards, who we'd met, that sort of stuff. He'd wanted to be "an artist when he grew up", and I believe he lived that out through me, and within a shorter period of time, my Brother. Dad could have followed that dream - used the G.I. Bill and gone to college - but he, like every other American soldier who had somehow survived the war, was in a rush to marry, buy a home and a car, and start having babies. BOOM!

I think I understand some of that vision. I'll try to speak for him: "Life is short and fragile. It is time to create more than a painting, and let our babies start living in this world we won at such high costs."

I regret not "Knowing" him. Surely he knew much more about me. I had fewer scars, less shame, a heightened sense of self-determination and single-minded goals. His first 20 years were mostly Hell. Mine were much easier. My folks made my first twenty as close to their version of "Heaven" as they could imagine and concoct.

Dad drove away in the morning, came home at night, paid the bills, and took care of the outside of the house and yard. Mom raised the boys, cleaned the inside of the house, and cooked the food. At the time when we needed them the most, we were suddenly uprooted from our Home (meaning everything and everyone we loved - forced to leave it and them behind), and they took us to a strange land. Then, they both went off to work... which only escalated every dark scenario to rise from our latch-key teen years. They were out of touch with us, whereas they thought we were doing okay - that we'd be fine flying solo for the day and some of the evenings.

They needed the money and this is what they felt they had to do. Much of that money was aimed at us for upcoming college years. I'm not here to condemn them for being absent. If anything, it was a loving, hard-working parental act, and Mom forfeited that which she received by being a stay-at-home Mother. I now understand why they were both shocked, and Mom quite upset, when I called them from college with my decision that their financial help was hurting my growth as an adult and an artist. I told them "Thank you, but please, no more." Mom cried. Dad, well, he was quiet as usual, but I think he saw it in male terms - and had a more accepting view of this "rejection".

I have to admit, here, and for the first time, that even though I, by my own choice, was dirt poor in through college - for years often scared to the point of panic about surviving from week to week, yet remaining dedicated to maturing as much and as fast as possible - I called them a couple times to ask for a few bucks, so they could feel helpful again. It helped alleviate their worries over me.

I began to appreciate their side of things.

In the oddest, whiplash, backdoor sort of way, I learned much of this because of my Dad.

Happy Father, Step-Father, Father-Figure, Older-Adult, Male-Mentor Day to everyone who deserves it.

Ronn.

Posted by Ronn Ives at 08:02 PM | Link

I wish I had a transcript of a conversation with one of my friends today. He's a designer and equally fascinated with the dynamics of culture, so we often go off on major tangents. In all of our fast-paced volleys, we hit on good points, but you know how this goes - it's hard to get them back again.

A couple ideas we whipped around awhile were:

Whether the web has actually affected/added any DEPTH of cultural change, or, it simply makes the small, here-today-gone-tomorrow blips on the screen accessible to more people.

Just because something happens faster doesn't mean it's dependent upon speed to exist. Same with distance. We may believe we close perceived "distances" faster due to the web, but I am not convinced of this. I may find someone much faster due to search engines than letters, but once found - for an example, a friend from the past - NOTHING is solved through technology. It's still up to the two you in the present. You may exchange your pasts, catch up on personal news, and then...

...you often find yourselves stalled in that awkward "Well, what now?" If so, you'll phase into retreat again. There was a reason the two of you originally faded. Your time with each other had passed. It's like most exchanges at a High-School reunion.

There were Reasons you didn't stay

In Touch.

Moving larger quantities of words and pictures around faster and broader is not what gives us what we seek, aside from entertainment or business efforts. Being human means we need modes of connection that have nothing to do with what the web offers just because it's "The Web".

The Web is a big screwdriver, that's all.

You can let it sit, construct something new and useful or new and useless, or, merely tighten old screws back into their old places.

Posted by Ronn Ives at 04:17 PM | Link